Thursday, April 15, 2010

Opposite Attracts?

And so they say...opposite attracts...

I can't believe I googled for "opposite attracts" and ended up reading an article on dating tips...

Quotes:

Stubbornness in a relationship where opposites attract will bring about disastrous results. Being open and open-minded, with a strong ability from both people to compromise, can create an environment of security and contentment amongst opposites.

Here are some questions to ask yourself:

1) Can you live with the differences or would you rather share your time with someone who likes and wants similar things that you do?

2) What is the foundation of your relationship based on?

3) Does being opposite create conflicts in your relationship?

4) What is it about the differences that you find exciting and stimulating?

5) Are you both great communicators with the ability to compromise?

6) Do you find that being opposites help compliment the relationship versus bringing conflict?

Being opposites can work if they are complimentary to the relationship and both people are open-minded with the ability to compromise when needed. Not having those abilities could create potential conflict leading to a bitter breakup. You need to analyze which category your relationship falls into. Good luck



All the luck I need indeed!?

Monday, April 05, 2010

Easter 2010

It was a chilling long weekend for Nico's 2010 Easter break. Friday morning was occupied by Easter treat baking for the BF. Only the chocolate mini muffins made it. The normal mango vanilla ones failed miserably. I knew it was a bad idea but didn't realise it turned out that bad because the centre doesn't seem to cook properly due to the mango puree. Anyway, luckily the chocolate ones turned out reasonably well.

Had dim sum for lunch later the day and watched Clash of Titans in 3D. It was a so-so movie. Not too great, maybe because we kind of expected too much before the movie. Even Sam Worthington's performance was not as good as he was in Avatar. He had very limited dialogue, and again, maybe he just need to look good in his spartan suit, showing off his muscles.
Got down to Wembley on Saturday just to check out the new Pacific Plaza which is suppose to be something like the closed down Oriental City. Only the food court and some shops were open. The oriental supermarket is not open yet. We tried some malaysian food at the food court. The curry laksa and the mamak mee goreng were quite decent. But the satay was not authentic enough. There were quite a variety of asian food stalls - korean, japanese, chinese dim sum and roast mixes etc. I'd say the food there is ok but not a place you will go specifically if you need an oriental meal fix. There are better restaurants in central london. The most interesting shop would be the Japanese bakery - Tetote factory - bought a melon bun, a fig and orange bun and a brioche to try - but missed the adzuki buns cos they were sold out.
Another lazy Sunday was spent "productively" in Bolnhurst with a yummy Sunday roast lunch at The Plough. Now that I am actually blogging about this place that I found out it's actually run by Martin Lee (he's one of Raymond Blanc's trained chef). A very cosy and lovely pub indeed with posh patrons and of course - high quality british food - especially the delicious rhubarb crumble!!! :)). What could be more heavenly than beautifully presented food sourced from fresh local produce and a meal with complimentary warm home made bread! Plus, it was a nice drive at the country side with only blue skies, green fields and cute cottages in sight - out of all the polution and crowd of the city.
So how is life treating Nico so far?...It felt like Nico's been abducted to lala land this easter weekend. There is quite a lot things floating around my mind to ponder about. But suddenly it just felt that no matter how much I think about them, it is not going to change much of reality. Thus, Nico's decided that there is no point thinking so much, and to fully enjoy every moment of happiness, bravely embrace every pinch of misery. It's only a few more hours to go before Nico has to face reality again. Time to wake up!

Thursday, April 01, 2010

April Fools Day Ponder

I wonder sometimes what am I doing to my life right now...
Can life be more pointless than this?
There are some things that doesn't feel right at the moment
I don't know what it is or what they are...
How many times do I need to tell myself tomorrow will be a better day
How many times do I need to remind myself I need to be brave
How many times do I need recall the promises I made to myself to focus...
...too many times...

Monday, March 22, 2010

Nearly end of March Update

Last w/e...

Met up with JL for lunch at Ten Ten Tei. It's been a while since I last saw him! So jealous that he gets to go back home again for 2 weeks. If only I have a job that involves more travelling, that'll be fun!

Then wandered around Regent St and Selfridges with Kev before having dinner at Viet Grill near Old Street. Really good Vietnamese food!!! And good ambience too!!! Highly recommended!!! These are what we ordered:
  • Các món rang mu i (Chilli salt and pepper squid) - the first few pieces were a bit too salty for me but it's good - A*
  • Canh c i n u tôm Seasonal bok choy greens in fragrant broth tofu - really yummy broth!!! A*
  • Cà tím n ng ‘Piggy Grilled Aubergine’ with scallion pork in tangy sweet and sour sauce - really like the sauce, light and appetising! - A**
  • Sake Lamb skewer BBQ cubed leg of lamb, with cumin and fennel, flavoured up with a touch of vietnamese sake - still good but the rest are better - A :)
We also ordered plain noodles with bean-sprouts and onion and surprisingly it's not plain at all! It's like a proper fried noodle dish itself!!! Satisfying Vietnamese meal :)

Went to YF's house warming party afterwards. Was only drinking and chatting...quite relaxing...I'd say they did a good job furnishing the place...plus the 37 inch TV is brilliant!

Come Monday, I was dreading myself to work. But it turns out the day wasn't that bad after all. Manage to deploy some fixes and do some proper work without being hassled by users.

p.s...The current chapter of Nico's life is about to end and a new one yet to begin...stay tuned...

Friday, March 19, 2010

And I Survived

Note: the following is one of Nico's rants again and is definitely beyond human comprehension...so just ignore...

Totally unbelievable that I survived the week! It had been an extremely busy week. When is this going to end?!?!?...Hopefully soon!!!...I'm getting impatient waiting...and it's only past one week >< ...!!!

At this moment, it seems like I am holding on to all these things...One day, I promise myself, if all these ever fell off my hands, I'll let everything go, take up a photography course and travel this world till I've used up every penny I saved up all these years...

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Not So Happy Day...

...bad day! bad day! ... I seriously think the devil is playing a prank on me >< ...

Monday, March 15, 2010

Being Happy

So what makes you happy?

...a meteor across the pitch black sky?
...a rainbow after a wet rainy day?
...a light and fluffy macaron?
...a freshly baked, just out of the oven egg tart?
...a surprise post in the mail box?

I have always doubt the phrase "...as long as you are happy..." used in a lot of advices people give you no matter whether you are trying to make a decision or what not. Doubt because I never knew what makes me happier and for the fact that for the past year or so life has been as it was until now. I think I can finally admit to myself that at this very moment, I am happy. No matter how bad a day I had to go through at work or what not, there seem to be a great force pulling me back together. I thought I am just on lala-land mode (as I normally do)...but everything seems so surreal...there is no switch...it's all happening for real! Of course I wish the feeling will continue... but even if it ever fades, at least I know I felt this way before...It's very strange...to an extent that my logical mind can't seem to explain why I felt that way...maybe that's called love x))...

p.s Life is hard...but the positive energy you inject into your life and others are the greatest motivation and help of all...

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