There are so many things going on in my mind that I just felt like putting them into words.
But of all the thoughts floating around, they will merely form a piece of junk!
I suppose I don't have to have a nice piece of organised and well planned blog entry every time, do I?
So here goes, some pieces of thoughts wandering in my brain now...
blank...
*recalling what I wanna say*...
Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny
-Unknown Source-
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny
-Unknown Source-
Oh ya...I have always have this question in mind: why everyone has different personalities and why do people react in certain ways that make others "not comfortable" of? Is it that we are just too sensitive to hate or dislike someone who supposedly had reacted in a way that we don't really fancy? Or is it because there is always a motive behind every action?
Can't we just be SINCERE, GENUINE and HONEST??? Is it true that there can never be honesty whenever there is more than two people acquainted in whatever way possible? Why do we always lie? You might say white lies don't kill and that is how people survive in this world. But will this world a better place to live if we just let out what we felt deep inside and accept what others have to say; good or bad; for the worse or better...
We always have genuine excuses convincing ourselves we are doing a good deed for telling a "beautiful" lie. Maybe you won't feel offended if someone tell you a beautiful lie. You might even feel happy that day. And maybe some time later that day, you will start to suspect if that someone is worth a friend you can trust. However, re-evaluating, I suppose you would be approximately 50% happier if that someone tells you what their really thoughts are, wouldn't you?
6 comments:
yes people have different layers of skin.It's very difficult finding a genuine person nowadays. People are too cautious of everything. That's why I've always said that good friends can only be found in primary/secondary school. It's a "dog eats dog" world now. Whoever the strongest,wins and survival of the fittest. We are just whole bunch of animals. No different.It's so common that whenever we meet someone new,we wear a different mask. If you are genuine, people say you are just "pretending". If you are too nice, people say you have a motive.
Well, to me I would be most comfortable in my own skin, so, I am who I am. Accept it or f off!hehe
But the devasting fact is that even someone you know for years
may betray your trust one day
Yes but if she/he is going to do that in the future, then there's nothing you can do except to accept it because you don't control that person...we just do watever we are supposed to do as a friend
well, i'm not hoping to change anyone but just expressing why we treat people in certain ways and not just be truthful about it...you have every right to be fake and lie, but what's the point
Absolutely no point...
Seeing others in pain is a form of enjoyment or a form of fulfillment for those ppl.
i think a little holding back is good sometimes. too much transparency can be a bit detrimental to a frenship or any kind of relationship. misunderstandings arise all to quickly and sometimes the benefit of the doubt can be a source of comfort. of course there is no subsitute for the honesty, respect and love in a relationship. just keep the integrity on your part and the clear conscience tat follows shud solve the issue even if it's just within yourself and not the relationship per se. cy
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